June 02, 2010
Stress Through Courtship Competition Shortens Male Lives
A study being published in Evolutionary Psychology, coming out of our campus hints towards the stress of courtship & competition for female attention as a life shortening stress factor.
Just yesterday, while chatting with my barber, the topic of relationships while being in school came up. She is an American of Irish descent. Her son, 27, is avoiding the dating scene to stay focused on his studies. In my books, that is a remarkable display of wisdom. Many societies discourage scouting for life partners too early on, not just on the grounds of religious morality, but simple wisdom of keeping the head clear. The person can focus on the important tasks at the time, i.e. getting a quality education.
Realizing that finding a life-partner independently is not just a regular stress, but a life shortening stress is critical in understanding the age old customs of arranged marriages can be labeled backward and Victorian, but are a part of a health promoting lifestyle going back centuries in the east.
However, the custom of arranged marriages has degraded in the east. It has become a corrupt instrument of gaining wealth, building political or business relationship between families. So money-based arranged marriages are the other end of the stress spectrum, far from the original goal of retaining a healthy atmosphere for the young to educate and establish themselves without worrying about finding a soulmate themselves.
A report on the UM study is published here on publicbroadcasting.net, the home of NPR Michigan.
Posted by rdivecha at June 2, 2010 01:49 PM